Monday, December 18, 2017

家 · Home



家,一个让我们有无限安全感和归宿感的温暖护巢。双亲和长辈就像家里的老菩萨,无时无刻无回酬的指引和护法,身为晚辈的无法说上孝不孝顺,只要不做违法的事,不让人担心就好了(虽然长辈总是放不下心)。

长辈们总会有老去的一天,也需要学习放手放心让小孩自己成长和独立,以让往后可以自力更生。

晚辈想要自由和空间很正常,也许想要的是早点靠自己独立更生,不依靠家里,好让长辈可以放心安心过自己向往的生活,不再担忧太多。

这是个自然轮回生态,长辈看自己永远是小孩,自己看下一代就像永远长不大的小孩。双方都需要学习放手和学习自立。

家,门永远是为你打开的,有事情自然会跑回护巢的,放心吧。



Home, always a place with safety and comfortably.

Parents like old Buddha which always take care of us. What we as children can do as reward is take good care of ourselves and not doing bad.

Youngsters need freedom as they might want to be independent and don’t want parents to worry too much.

Please don’t worry, they will back to home when they need protection.

This is a nature routine, parents see us always is a kid, we see our own young generation always a kid too.

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